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Monday, September 24, 2012

Randoms

1. My 8 year old Jeep Cherokee is having a few minor hiccups. The power steering is going out, my thermostat was shot and my 4th cylinder wasn't firing. I don't know much about cars but I do know that equals a lot of money for repairs. Gag.

2. I got my haircut short in a bob. I like it, it's much more manageable and easier to straighten in the mornings.

3. I love the pic of mr. H and our boys being silly. T just passed his Dad in height. He's now 5'11" tall. He's such a cutie!

Saturday, September 22, 2012

Pioneer Days 5K-First Place

This morning we had to wake up at 5:45am-ugh, to go to the Pioneer Days 5K at the new park we have in town.  Every year our little town puts on a fun festival with rides, a 5K, a 10K, pet contests, a beauty pageant and yummy food. 

T and his friend thought the 5K would be fun and were hoping they would place. 

Well, they won.  First place. 

They had the exact same time, which I think was planned.  What great best friends!





Tuesday, September 18, 2012

Furniture Fun

I've been shopping for furniture for my Mom's senior apartment and of course, couldn't help looking for myself.

I am so in love with this set of Ashley furniture.




I'm in a blue mood lately.  It makes me feel calmer in this storm of my life.  I used to have red but it was too dramatic for me.  I'm sure I'll change my mind at some point but right now I love soothing colors.


I also love this look for the dining room.  So clean and fresh looking.

 
I would love to use white in my living room but I have a 13 year old and 11 year old.  They are boys. 
 
Enough said.

 
I have a deep need to make this.  How cute would this look on my mahogany colored front door?!
 

Tuesday, September 11, 2012

Moms Big Move

 We have finally convinced my Mom, after a horrible summer of illness, that it's better if she moved to an Assisted Living Senior Apartment.  I've been talking to her about it since January and she never would agree to it, saying she was fine and could handle herself living alone. 

Well, take Parkinsons Disease and add in a flooded house and she's had it.  She now knows that she can't handle her house by herself and she's just not safe anymore alone.  My Mom has a form of Parkinsons in which she will never get the tremors but she falls without warning.  She will get up to walk somewhere and for no reason, black out and just slump to the ground.  She's probably fallen no less than 100 times in the last 9 months.  She's suffered very little injury when falling, which has been a blessing but some of the falls required an emergency room visit.

I've learned a lot of things in the past 4 months. 

1.  Having a Power of Attorney does nothing when the adult you are taking care of can tell medical people that they want to live by themselves.  You can only ask someone to move to an assisted living, you can't make anyone do anything.

2. Low Sodium in an older person is the scariest thing I've been through. It makes the person confused, mean, agitated, combative, halucinate, and just say all around crazy things.  My Mom had low sodium and one day out of the blue became extremely agitated, refusing to go to the doctor, take care of herself, listen to anyone, etc.  I couldn't even get her to go to the doctor to see what was going on.  All this was happening in the middle of the flood restoration at her house and she refused to leave. She stayed in the middle of new flooring, painting, cleanup.  She told the restoration guys she wanted her garage painted red (on a grey house), she wanted to charge up her car so she could do donuts in the yard (seriously-how strange is that request), she wasn't eating right at all (she only ate baked sweet potato fries-that's it) and she was generally pissed off at everyone, especially me. 

By the way, there is nothing worse than hearing your parent tell you what a horrible child and person you were and are currently.  I know she's sick and wasn't talking in her right mind but that is a self-esteem killer right there.  If I hadn't had my husband and kids around, I don't know what I would have done.

3.  Parkinsons Disease just sucks.

4.  The guilt of having to move your parent into an Assisted Living is a killer.  It's like sending your child off the kindergarten by themselves.  I just want to make her friends for her and watch her all day and night.  So hard.



I have decided that I'll do whatever it takes to make my Mom happy and feel content about moving.  She's having to leave her furniture behind because it's too big so we bought all new furniture.  Bright cheery furniture!

Her new little kitchenette in her apartment
Her new cottage style headboard

Her cottage style loveseat-you have to be happy when sitting on this.

Big chair and ottoman

Cute drop leaf table

TV stand